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The ‘Casualty’ Debate……

Now that the BBC TV programme ‘Casualty’ storyline is in full flow, it’s naturally raising many questions and much debate, which is good.

When I became involved, I realised and especially when it became known that I was involved, I knew there would be much scrutiny and comment. I would have been disappointed if there hadn’t been.

I knew that whatever I recommended would not suit all. If I’d have suggested they go for the ‘ideal’ and had a wonderful diagnosis process, and then a wonderful work scenario, then some people would have said it was pie in the sky and far from reality. If I’d have gone with the reality that the majority of people experience, I would have been accused of suggested the purely negative experience. So instead I suggested a balance.

I thought it should show the reality of people’s experience as well as some hope. With it being situated in a hospital, the storyline affecting 2 of it’s main clinical staff, husband and wife, Charlie and Duffy, it was going to be even harder to please everyone.

The point the storyline is making is how a husband and wife facing the challenge is totally separate from their clinical roles. They are still ordinary people facing dementia and their clinical knowledge is overtaken by their personal relationship and feelings.

The storyline, thankfully has many, many months to run yet and it’s success will shine or fade as the storyline unfolds and twists and turns are revealed.

People seem to think I was the only person consulted, simply because it’s my name that’s made the headlines but there were many others whose views were just as important. The lovely supporter, Suzy Webster and Hilda Hayo from Dementia UK to name just 2. Each would have given a view and our views together make the storyline evolve.

Why things happen in programs is so fascinating, and are rarely known to the audience so I’ve been in a very unique position which has given me extra knowledge and therefore extra insight and understanding.

So yes, you may think some things shouldn’t be happening, but ask why? Are they showing a different side of the characters. Hopefully as the story unfolds it will bring in more followers as all I ever wanted by being involved is to get people talking about the subject.

And after all, a good storyline is only as good as the actors playing the parts…..

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-6936029/Author-Wendy-Mitchell-helping-write-scripts-Casualty.html

We all know that newspapers don’t always get their facts right and the biggest bloomer that even I noticed was my age in this article….🙄

A verrrry long day, but filled with lovely things…..

Sometimes the type of programme I’m invited on might not be my cup of tea or one I watch but sometimes you have to go out of your comfort zone to reach a different type of audience and last Thursday was one such time.

On Wednesday, me and my daughter Sarah trundled down to London in preparation for being on ITV’s ‘Lorraine’ programme on Thursday morning. With it being the Easter Holidays, Lorraine wasn’t presenting and instead it was the lovely Christine Lampard who use to front the One Show some time ago. I was also scooting back north to do a talk and book signing at Waterstones in York in the evening😳…….but an empty Easter weekend followed, so I can hibernate after……..🤪

My publishers had organised everything, so it was very simple for me, as Kate had booked all the tickets and sent me timings for everything. Me and Sarah sat happily on the train soaking up the Yorkshire Tea as we were travelling with Hull Trains….

The car was picking us up at 06.55 the following morning hence why we had to stay overnight!……..

We had a wander down Tottenham Court Road as it was a warm and sunny evening, but being London it was also rammed with people, so got something for supper before heading back to the hotel.

I had a sleepless night as the air con noise or something making a continuous noise kept me awake and I couldn’t work out where it was coming from or to switch it off🙈😱 and the radiator was on which I didn’t realise before it was too late to txt Sarah……….so not that good start to a long day 🙄

Anyway……Sarah came to my room ready for the car picking us up at 06.55. It was a grey misty London that greeted us……..

We arrived at the studio to find lovely friendly people…..

We were shown straight into make up first, which for me takes a nano second 🤣…..but Sarah enjoyed being pampered

We then went through to the green room where they earned several brownie points as they’d got Yorkshire Tea in…..❤️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️and immediately got me a cuppa. Several people came and said hello to us before Kate from Bloomsbury also joined us. She was chief photo taker, so had a very responsible job😂 but had also remembered to bring a book for me to take on set😇…….

The lovely Rosa, who had FaceTimed me came along and went through what we might talked about. Another cuppa tea arrived and before we knew it me and Sarah were being taken into the studio to be met by a lovely hug from presenter Christine Lampard. The people on the floor were so friendly and smiley. We were shown to the settee while another item was being shown.


Now this programme is very ‘celebrity’ dominated so it means they said things a tad extreme like I count Emma T and Julianne Moore as friends🙄 and they clung onto my involvement on ‘Casualty’ bit as well – but it’s that sort of show. I did have influence over language though so no mention of ‘suffering’ and through that I was able to reach a different audience which was my aim.

Christine seemed so genuine in her comments. Her grandfather had dementia and after reading my book could now understand why he couldn’t remember her name etc. Havn’t a clue what we talked about but I remember how kind people were and how smiley. Christine fed me the words that produced the sentences from my mouth. Any random question would have left me stumbling. That’s always the sign of a good interviewer for me – the person doing the briefing has to be good at their job.

I had a lovely time and of course we were able to get a piccie before we left…and they gave me a goodie bag, the best of the contents was the emergency power charger for my phone!

The car took us back to the publishers, Bloomsbury, where all my lovely people, came to say hello and Emma had stopped off to get me some amazing flowers to take home 😍

You can see it here:

On the train back, a woman opposite saw us and said to Sarah, “I saw you on telly this morning’ and many kind things…..

I sat there, once again in this surreal world, feeling very lucky in this bitter sweet situation.
Now just have to get home and into York ready for the evening at Waterstones but I’ll do a separate blog on that……

My daughter telling her side of our story….plus…

Yesterday was the turn of my daughter Sarah to be in the spotlight for a change. As I said on my blog yesterday (Ithink!), both sides of the story are equally importation very different needs yet both needing support; no one side is more important than the other. So yesterday Sarah was giving her side of our story on Radio 4’s Woman’s Hour with the lovely Jane Garvey.

Sarah was soo nervous she arrived at my house 10 minutes early so I’d only just come downstairs from getting ready 🤣…..we arrived at the station in plenty of time to have several cups of tea but were very good and just had one😇 well I had one and Sarah had coffee (😱🙈🤐) ……….once we were on the train all was right in the world as we both had tea……😇

No trip across the Humber bridge today as we’d driven further down the line to pick up the train but there was the most amazing sunrise followed by torrential rain a few minutes later. Which just kept on coming……..!!

So no piccie of the sunrise but a selfie instead😊

Kate from Bloomsbury was meeting us at Kings Cross and we all piled into the taxi for the short but always long ride through the London traffic to the BBC. I wasn’t there just st for the ride today as I had a podcast to record with Delicious, the food magazine. So at least I felt I was earning my keep as Bloomsbury were paying for us both to travel.

Anyway we got to the station and Kate and then the taxi were waiting for us. Once we got through security Sophie and Paula met us in reception, and took us up to the green room and the waiting cuppa from Sophie😇. Jane Garvey soon joined us and after hugs and a catch up time for piccies☺️

They surprised me asking if we had to rush off as they’d like to record something with Sarah for the podcast☺️ magic😊

Sarah was whisked away and me and Kate were able to listen to the programme …..

Sarah was sooooo nervous……bless……but I knew Jane would look after her.

Sarah was second on……after a child poverty piece – it seems wrong that in this day and age, in this rich yet messed up country, that we have children and families going hungry. 😞

Jane played a clip from my interview first and asked Sarah how she felt after hearing me. They spoke of the changes in my personality. Sarah spoke of the grief at the loss of my old character but also the joy at all I’m doing now.

The subject of her nursing skills being a help or a hinderance to supporting me. Sarah spoke of how she often thinks she is doing right, especially when we wrote my lasting power of attorney. Sarah assumed I would want the opposite because of her nurse training.

At the end of the day, I have capacity, and Sarah let’s me get on with things, but is always there when I need her.

Sarah might have been nervous but she was amazing sooooooo amazing. You can hear it here:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m0003qx8

Sarah is about 10 minutes in and both of us are at the end……..😊

Once the programme had finished we recorded an extra piece with us both in conversation with Jane…….she is such a wonderful person…..😊

Kate then surprised us as Emma had sorted a joint interview for BBC Radio London 😊 straight after our time here…….. Sarah just nodded 🤣

So after a cuppa tea we went across to BBC Radio London and quickly shown upstairs where we waited a few minutes..

We were taken to the studio pre record an interview with Jo Good. I apparently was on her programme last year for my hardback version😳🙄 funny, I remembered the waiting area ……must have a piccie or something……..

This time me and Sarah were doing a double act😊. Jo was so nice, so smiley. Havn’t a clue what we talked about except Sarah said Jo mentioned how I hadn’t changed at all in a year. Sarah made the point that I’ve changed in many ways and how it underplays the daily struggles by saying I’m the same – glad she highlighted that, huge brownie point😊

So for another piccie……

We went back to Bloomsbury. We had a little while before the final recording of the day so me and Sarah went to hibernate in a café for a while and had lunch, well me another top up of tea🙄

We headed back to the office where Gillie from ‘Delicious’ magazine podcast was waiting for me.Another nice interview followed by my last cuppa tea in the conservatory where Sarah was waiting for me but not before a last piccie with Gillie from Delcious…

The whole gang who look after me at Bloomsbury popped down for a hug and catch up. Emma, Hannah, Jasmin and Alexis, all coming to say hello..wonderful

Totally wiped out, exhausted and running on automatic, we ambled our way in the fresh air back to Kings Cross.

I might have been running on empty but I felt very lucky to have the opportunity of such a wonderful day………..☺️…….and because today was snuck in as an extra, I’m back down in London again tomorrow……..😳🤐😴….

Collaboration with the BBC TV ‘Casualty’ Programme……..

Last week my involvement with the BBC TV ‘Casualty’ storyline was mentioned on “This Morning”. You can listen to the few minute interview here

One of the main characters, in this long standing hospital programme, ‘Sister Duffy’, is finally diagnosed with  Dementia. Although, I’ve been involved for some time, I couldn’t write a real time blog about my meetings as it was top secret in the TV world.

Anyway, now the story is out, I can put together  the blogs I wrote but didn’t publish (big letters next to them of DO NOT PUBLISH), to tell you how my involvement came about…….

So for me it all started about a year ago, when my book first came out. However, the storyline was already being researched with Dementia UK as well as my lovely friend, Suzy Webster, whose mother lives with dementia – and those are the ones I know about. It was at Suzy’s suggestion that they actually contacted someone with dementia. Since my book had just come out, I was in the media a bit and I imagine this was how they came upon my name.

I don’t remember how or when I was first approached but here’s what I typed at the first meeting…….no piccies, as I can’t be trusted not to share those 🤣

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Well Monday 11th June 2018 was our first face to face meeting. I trundled down to London to meet the Story Producers and the Story editors. The planning had been meticulous and Beth, one of the editors had been so careful in arranging travel and the venue. Beth said in an email:

I’ve been informed by a friend that it’s a nice place and quiet on weekdays. I’ve spoken to the staff and they have assured me it’s pretty chilled at lunch times and have set aside a booth at the back for us.”

I even received a walking map from the station or they would have met me at the station and walked with me.

The perfect start.

Anyway, it was a gloriously sunny June day, probably far from the weather when I can finally reveal this blog! – (ha! Very funny as I didn’t know back then when I would reveal it)

I used the map and en route had a txt from Beth to say she was sat outside the café waiting for me. I was met by 3 lovely people in a wonderfully quiet café, with a table reserved for us at the back. It felt like we were as far away from the hustle and bustle of Kings Cross as we could possibly be. Yet outside the café was the usual chaos of the London street.

The icing on the cake was to see they sold Yorkshire Tea……..❤️…..could the day get any better……..⭐️

We sat for a couple of hours, discussing likely plots and plans for inclusion, with them making various notes and asking many questions. I didn’t type on purpose so I wouldn’t give anything away. I remember little of the conversation. What I do remember is being in the relaxed company of 3 wonderfully warm and kind people, all willing to listen, learn and contribute their ideas. “

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And all was going fine, with scripts being sent for me to read and comment on, but then things started to go downhill………

Such is the world of TV, that teams change, writers change, and I suddenly felt uneasy with the way the storyline was going. All this time, I was in contact Beth Grant, the story editor, who has remained a constant during the process. She is also a lovely, lovely person. I decided sadly to end my involvement and I thought that would be the end of it. Many promises were made that never came to fruition. Can’t remember what, why, the timescale or the detail, but remember feeling very sad.

Then a few months ago, (probably 🙄😂)I received another email from Beth asking if I would reconsider joining them again. Amidst many changes, she thought I could, once again, influence the writers.

And so it was that we met once more in London at the same café that served Yorkshire tea 😍

Someone new with her this time who had also read my book, one of the writers. I felt a different atmosphere from the last few months, a need to get things right and hopefully listening to what I was saying. I didn’t type much on this occasion as the proof would be in the scripts I was sent as to whether any notice was being taken.

As the scripts came through I began to feel happier. I didn’t and probably won’t meet the actress playing Duffy, which I find sad, but then someone said to me how some actors prefer not to meet people direct. I just hope she’s done lots of homework on how to play someone with her type of dementia. After all a wonderful script is only as good as the actor playing the part.

The storyline will go on for many months, I’m pleased to say. What I did learn was how complicated the TV world is and how the unlikeliest events can change the progress of the script, totally unbeknown to the viewers.

There will always be people who don’t agree with certain episodes or certain bits, but knowing what I know now, I can see why some things happen as they do. Overall, I’m very happy with the way it turned out, the twists and turns, the ups and downs. As for whether, if, or when it will all end………well…………..keep watching…….there’s a long way to go with many good scenes on the way…..and it will be just as much a surprise to me by then as to you………

Charity Film Awards…..

Ages ago…..must have been last year but not really sure🙄….the Alzheimers society sent an amazing duo to capture me on film. The very talented Nicola Leddy was behind the camera and put the film together……anyway, it was nominated for a Charity Film award. Apparently I asked people to vote 🙄……….well the good news is…….

IT HAS REACHED THE FINAL!!!!!!!

Nicola emailed me the good news and I had to ask her to send me a link to remind me what we’d filmed🤪……..

The new favour I now need to ask you all is to vote again as there’s a ‘People’s award’ that any of the finalists in any category can win.

Me and Nicola are going to the award ceremony in London next month. What I hadn’t realised when I said ‘yes’ was that it was a ‘black tie’ affair…….😳 ……..I don’t do posh…..I can’t do posh………so we agreed to be the ‘rebels in the crowd’ and dress as we felt comfortable. Considering I only have a certain set of clothes you certainly won’t be able to miss me.🤣

Anyway, I said I had a favour and here it is. If you like the film could you vote for us again pretty please? Here’s the link….

https://www.charityfilmawards.com/videos/somebody-i-used-to-know-wendy-mitchell

Thank youuuu…..🙏🙏🙏

Another day in the Surreal world…..

A super silly o’clock start yesterday for another surreal day in London…….but what a wonderful day I was heading towards……I know all this won’t last so I just enjoy each moment.
The lovely people at Bloomsbury had me down for 3 interesting outings.
The first to be on BBC Woman’s Hour, the second for an interview with AgeUK and a final one on Magic Radio.

The article in this weekends Sunday Times magazine, about my book appears to have gone down very well if Twitter was anything to go by! Apart from a few inaccuracies it was a lovely article thanks to journalist Decca Aitkenhead. A strange world I’m living in at the moment but won’t last so will enjoy the moment.

Anyway, so Round 20 started yesterday. The taxi man was super early for the first train of today. So at 5.30am I was heading off to the station 😴…..lots of other weary early travellers joined me on the platform and we all sleepwalked onto the train….

But it was a beautiful morning as we trundled past the Humber.

Emma and Kate were meeting me at Kings Cross so we could all share a taxi to the BBC for the Radio 4 Woman’s Hour programme…..it still always amazes me how long it takes to drive a couple of miles in London🙈

We arrived at the BBC to find mega security but we were soon through and taken upstairs and met by the same smiley producer who had FaceTimed me originally. I was then taken straight into meet Jane Garvey, the presenter, clutching my cuppa tea which they had ready and waiting – ha!

Jane Garvey was so lovely and so kind. We chatted while the 10 o’clock news was on and before she introduced the programme, as I was first on. Apparently she spent 12 minutes chatting to me about this that and everything. Their Twitter feed went mad ……obviously I havn’t a clue what we spoke about as I’m typing this at lunchtime and it’s already disappeared. I just know I had a lovely time. I then made a short video to go on their website, before seeing Jane again at the end of the programme to record a podcast both of which were a bonus.

You can download the programme  here: Think I’m at the beginning and about 40 mins (I think!)

https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/m000356z

don’t know if this one is any different or with added bits – did try and compare the 2 but got in a right pickle 🙄

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m000356z

Once I was back in the cab, I tried to get through the hundreds of tweets, only to have one special one pointed out to me, sent by singer and actor Will Young…..how amazing ❤️

Back at Bloomsbury, there was a chance for a catch up and a cuppa before heading downstairs for the next interview with James Hickie from Age UK. He recorded our interview and that should be available today I believe. We spoke for about 30 minutes I think…..once again, no idea what we talked about now, but he was very nice.

you can read the interview here….

https://www.ageuk.org.uk/discover/2019/march/wendy-mitchell-on-life-with-dementia/

Back upstairs for a final cuppa before heading to Magic Radio. I was sat with all the lovely staff but they’d been given instructions to leave me In peace😂 wonderful to be sat amongst all the publicity people and be surrounded by books, including mine! And look at these amazing chandeliers!!

So time for the last interview. We got the taxi to Magic Radio, which happens to be near the BBC where we were this morning! They’ve introduced a new slot about books and my book is their Book of the Month for March!

We arrived and were met by the producer who took us up to presenter Emma, who was very smiley and nice.

My cuppa tea arrived and then we started recording.This one was pre recorded so not sure when it will be on but again, we think, this week. If I manage to keep up with everything I’ll put links on at some point this week on a different blog. We chatted and laughed for about 30 minutes and Kate had to ask the taxi to wait😳….but just enough time for more piccies.
I realised I did the whole interview in my coat and only took it off for the official piccies at the end😳 Well I’ve had my coat on and off so many times today I probably didn’t know I was wearing it 🤣

Finally went back to Bloomsbury to pick up my stuff before a nice walk in the fresh air and sunshine back to Kings Cross.

The lovely people at Bloomsbury always look after me well and make sure I have everything I need – meaning cuppa tea on tap 😂. So today Emma, Kate and Hannah looked after me perfectly. Couldn’t do all this if they didn’t look after me…….makes sooooo much of a difference to my day.

Back to normality and the real world once I got back to Kings cross to see all trains delayed…..including my own 🙈😳🙄🤯

What a day…….I really am very lucky. Exhausting it might all be and yes the banging head was very much in situe come the afternoon, but What’s the alternative? To sit at home with dementia as my only companion? I don’t think so.
As I’ve said many times before…..I’d rather die of exhaustion than dementia……..

Visitors to my home………..

Yesterday saw the publication of my paperback and on World Books Day too……how amazing❤️

I had two interviews, and a FaceTime but this time all in the comfort of my home….and looking at the rainy windy cold weather outside, it was a good job…..also because I still had the banging head from yesterday……🙄

The first was from the local Radio station, BBC Radio Humberside. Phil White, the Saturday breakfast show host, had contacted me after reading about my Skydive and wondered if I would go into the studio on Saturday morning to talk on his programme……mmmmm well hopefully I’ll be flying like a bird that morning out of an aeroplane. So he agreed to come to my house yesterday morning and record the short interview instead.

Phil arrived right on time in the pouring rain🙄…..I don’t think I’ve ever been on Radio Humberside before so he didn’t know me and seemed a tad taken aback by the paperback lying on the table and the scrabble board that I’ll be playing with the Financial Times a few hours later….. But he was lovely and didn’t pretend. Our chat included me talking about my book in the few minutes we recorded as well as about the Skydive for Young Dementia UK.

I always like it when people see me for the first time. You can see the seeds being sown about dementia right before your eye…….I did forget to take a piccie though🙈

So the morning came and went and before I knew it 1 o’clock had arrived and the knock on the door lead to the arrival of Harriet and Tom the photographer. They were from the Financial Times. They Have a piece where they’re interviewing people while doing their favourite hobby. They’d asked me if I would have a game of scrabble while I did mine. Scrabble is part of my morning routine, although I play it on line so I did wonder how it would work playing on a board again.

The aim was for us to play a game of scrabble while talking about my book……Tom decided the conservatory had the most light due to the grey rainy day outside. He even had an amazing camera with actual film inside ….none of this digital lark…..😂

They were the nicest friendliest people and boy did we have a laugh. Bets were on at Bloomsbury as to who would win🤣 and the cheating probably started pretty quickly…..although I think we called it ‘House rules’ – my house my rules 🤣

Tom unobtrusively took photos as and when he saw a good shot……the word ‘competitive’ took on a whole new meaning as delaying tactics were used by asking me a question, Tom wanting a posed photo…..such such fun.Havn’t a clue what we talked about🙄 all I know is ……. Harriet added up the score several times just to make sure………

I’ll let you decide from the piccie who won……I was sad when it was over as we laughed so much!

And here’s the proof……..

Wonderful, such a happy interview……or at least I assume Harriet got the interview she wanted as well😳

The day ended with a FaceTime call with Sophie, producer of BBC’s Woman’s hour. It was a briefing call as I’m due to be on their programme on Monday morning which involves the earliest silly o’clock start but hey ho………

That was another lovely friendly interviewer. I wasn’t typing while taking the call so I havn’t a scooby doo what we talked about except right at the end she said she’d heard I was doing a Skydive on Saturday…….soooo excited ……so hopefully I will do it and be able to talk about it on the programme, who knows!

All have had such smiley faces today and all at home. Smiley, friendly faces make all the difference……….

and now I’ve finished typing this, head banging…. I’ll just close my eyes…..relax……and reflect on what has been a very surreal but wonderful day….❤️……and one of the amazing things that came my way today, was my very own Gif………which I can’t stop watching….❤️…I hope it works on my blog……

A Busy Day in London……..

Yesterday found me up at silly o’clock for a trundle to London. Well, I say I was up….my body was out of bed but my brain had decided it was having none of it…….I was convinced I was going for a particular train and the taxi was coming at a particular time………those were the times today’s brain told me anyway. Good my brain on the day I actually booked the taxi was in working order. There I was meandering aimlessly and getting ready when I saw the taxi lights outsides😳………..early………or so I thought……….Good job my bag was ready and tickets in my pocket as I rushed out of the house. Good job I didn’t make him wait too long for me as I just caught the train🙈🙄

The new tablets are playing havoc with me in a morning. Brain suppressed, ability to think missing. So good job I have automatic mode that trusts my packing the night before, but at least I was on the train. A strange very old train. One where the windows still open 😳 and the customer safety instructions involve a ladder😱. I’m sure the driver stalled the train as we were pulling out of the station. All the passengers looked round nervously laughing……..but it got us to Doncaster where I had enough time for a cuppa tea and time to play solitaire and scrabble to try and open up my head. It didn’t help when I heard the station announcement

“There will now be a series of fire alarm tests……..”😱🤯

Anyway, I digress……it had rained heavily overnight so it was a dull grey start to the day. Only faithful dog walkers were to be seen by the Humber

I was trundling to London to do nice bookie things with Bloomsbury. The first of which was at the Head Office of Waterstones in Piccadilly! I was there to talk to their staff about my book, book shop design and my change in reading habits. What I talk about is always as much as a surprise to me as to the audience as I often write them the week before so they’re new to me by the time I read them🙄

Amazingly the train was on time and I walked to Bloomsbury. I was met by Emma and Hannah who look after me and after hugs and a catch up me and Hannah went in the taxi to the amazingly large Waterstones in Piccadilly, within which is their headquarters.

We were met inside by Peter who looks after all the online stuff and twitter (😊). Apparently they never ask authors into here to speak to managers and members of staff so I was very happy to be there. One manager had come from Horsham I think and the others were local. Peter earned the first brownie point for bringing me a pot of tea and one of the women then earns hers by getting me a chair to put it on.

We chatted for about 20 minutes, during which I rambled about anything and everything to do with m book, including my change in reading habits! One bit I said,

I’ve rediscovered the joy of reading children’s books. The unbelievable detail of the illustrations. Why should children’s books be solely for children, adults of all ages can enjoy them all over again or sometimes for the very first time. ”

It was over in a flash but had lots of questions, none of which come to mind🙄 I signed some of their stock of books ready for tomorrow and then Hannah booked the cab to take us back to the office. I sat quietly in the conservatory for a while with a much needed cuppa as my head was still banging from the morning and we still had a podcast to record😳

I’d just finished my cuppa when it was time for the podcast. The RiffRaff, a podcast that champions debut authors wanted to chat about the process of writing Somebody I Used to Know, and other stuff. We went upstairs and the lovely smiley woman was there all set up. I forgot to write her name 🙈🙄…….but she was sooooo nice.

We talked about this that and everything for about an hour I think 🤔. She was so kind in her comments but obviously I couldn’t type so have no idea really as the detail vanished before I got on the train home where I’m typing this…..🙄. I do remember how smiley and nice she was though and I remember much laughing……😊

Apparently it should be broadcast on march 18th. Here’s their website for anyone interested.

https://www.the-riffraff.com/podcast-2

By the end my head was well and truly still banging. It had had enough. So luckily we’d left plenty of time for me to amble back to kings cross. I thought id just pop into WH Smith’s just in case they had my book early and what were they just putting on the shelves……

Amazing day, despite the head……..☺️

Visit to BBC Radio York……

On Monday morning I trundled into York on the bus to meet with the lovely Jonathan Cowap from Radio York. Jonathan has always been kind to me and invited me on his programme at regular intervals since I was diagnosed 4 or 5 years ago.

I couldn’t remember when I last saw him so searched my blog for the memory and found it was almost a year ago to the day! It must have been at the time of the release of the hardback version of my book, looking at the piccie.

Anyway, this time it was me contacting Jonathan as I wanted to publicise the Skydive I’m doing for Young Dementia UK on Saturday as well as my paperback and luckily he was free to see me.

Monday morning dawned and after Storm Freya battering the land overnight, I was pleased to see the sunshine. I’ve had terrible trouble with a batch of new medication lately, making my mood sink unusually low and feeling very tired so it was nice to see the sunshine to try and keep my head above the waterline.
No taxi needed this morning as we weren’t meeting until 1pm so I could take the village bus into town to catch the bus to York.

I had time to spare so I ambled through the lovely Museum Gardens….

And saw the lovely spring daffodils…..

I didn’t print a map or set my phone to show me the way once I was in York, as I assumed I would just know…….wrong…….. I must have taken a wrong turning and couldn’t work out where to go. However, I never worry in York, as all the shopkeepers are so kind and helpful and soon had me on the right route once more.

Jonathan was stood at the door waiting for me so after a hug and a catch up we went straight into the studio and recorded the piece. I wasn’t typing so listening to what I said will be as much a surprise to me as to you!

It may sound strange but people only see or hear the positive bits of me – they forget there are many struggles they may not capture in a brief interview, simply because I’m happy to be there. In those moments of happiness the struggles fade. Whenever I’m somewhere I want to be with people who are kind, I’m instantly happy, no matter what rubbish has passed my way before then. Once I leave the rubbish takes over again….So I imagine I must always seem the same cheery person when I meet Jonathan as he’s one of the few media people I trust to be kind. And here’s the man himself….

You should be able to hear the interview here – I’m about 1hr 33 mins into the programme…

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/p070jz00

The Sunday Times visits me at Home …….

The paperback version of my book is due out in March so interviews and promotion are all starting to swing into action.
Yesterday I had a visit from journalist Decca Aitkenhead. She was interviewing me and Sarah for a piece for the Sunday Times magazine.

Decca and I met at the Hay Festival last year as she interviewed me on stage there. I remember little of the actual occasion but I remembered she was lovely but I had to look to the net for a reminder of her face. I remember the Hay Festival as a wonderful experience, made even more so by my friend Rachel Niblock bringing her 2 granddaughters to keep me company in the alien green room……so my blog told me when I’ve just read it – ha!

My publishers are lovely on these occasions as they also sent me a piccie of the photographer before he arrived as I’ve never met him. He was due to arrive an hour before Decca and get his bit all done and dusted…..

Anyway, Sarah had not long arrived before there was a knock on the door and the photo I’d been sent looked just like the man on my doorstep. He was lovely and his eyes scanned the downstairs for appropriate place to take the photos. I never let photographers upstairs now after last years events where they took photos of anything and everything.

He also drank tea so he must have been nice.

Sarah turned the tables on him and took a piccie of him taking a piccie of me……

As with all things like this, they take a hundred photos to perhaps use just one, but at least we know they’ll choose a nice one as they won’t want a bad one in their paper.🤣

Chris snapped away for about an hour before finally being satisfied and had a cuppa tea. He was just leaving as Decca pulled up in the taxi so perfect timing…..

After hugs and a catch up, Decca started her recorder going and the three of us chatted happily away for over 2 hours😳 before we realised the time! Havn’t a clue now what we spoke about but I remember lots of laughter, smiles and Sarah did wonderfully. We even had time for a selfie of the three of us

Decca only drank water 😳 but I’ll forgive her as she’s such a lovely smiley person……

So this surreal world is appearing all over again. It’s ‘extra’ suduko as the people I meet are a bonus in my week and in the past I think they’ve all been lovely.

This time round, the paperback has a new cover of the 2 most precious people in my life and we’re hoping to appeal to an even wider audience. I’ve been asked to write articles myself for some publications, which is wonderful. All these an added bonus to a life with dementia in tow……..who would have thought, eh?…… more on everything as and when they happen……

A wonderful, if exhausting few hours and when everyone had left, leaving me in silence…I promptly fell asleep……..😴😴

Apparently the article will be in the Sunday Magazine on the 10th March, we think……..ooooo that’s the day after my Skydive!! So let’s hope it’s a nice calm sunny weekend😊