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Hello and welcome to my blog. On the 31st July 2014 I was diagnosed with Young onset dementia. I may not have much of a short-term memory anymore but that date is one I’ll never forget.

Me - 59 years young with my wonderful daughters:)
Me – 59 years young with my wonderful daughters:)

I’m 62 years young, live happily alone in Yorkshire, have 2 daughters and I continued to work full time in the NHS until the end of March 2015, when I chose to take early retirement to enable me to enjoy being me while I’m able. I have never ‘tweeted’, ‘blogged’ or ‘facebooked’ in my life but since I was diagnosed, everything else in my life has changed, so why not this. I hope you find my ramblings of interest.

I started this blog to allow me, in the first instance, to write all my thoughts before they’re lost. Luckily the part of my brain that allows me to type hasn’t broken yet and I find that easier than talking. I have calendars that take care of the future but this blog serves as a reminder of what I’ve done and said in the past – it now serves as my memory. If anyone chooses to follow my ramblings it will serve as a way of raising awareness.

It will hopefully convey the helplessness of those diagnosed with dementia, as there is no cure – the end is inevitable. However, I’m also hoping I can convey that, although we’ve been diagnosed, people like me still have a substantial contribution to make; we still have a sense of humour; we still have feelings. I’m hoping to show the reality of trying to cope on a day-to-day basis with the ever-changing environment that dementia throws at those diagnosed with the condition. Living as well as you can with dementia is all about adapting. Adapting to new ways to enable us to live better for longer with dementia.

I can type as though dementia never entered my world as that part of my brain has not yet been affected, but that often works against me as people question my diagnosis. All I can say is, live a day in my shoes and I’m sure the reality will dawn.

What I want is not sympathy. What I want is simply to raise awareness.

I’m now the proud author of the Sunday Times Best Seller, Somebody I Used to Know, which just goes to show, you should never give up on yourself.

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If you prefer to comment by email please feel free – wendy7713@icloud.com or you can find me on Twitter   @WendyPMitchell

Billy, my daughter's cat - a calming influence in my life. Billy, my daughter’s cat – a calming influence in my life.

 

 

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  1. I have just finished you book,
    Your courage, drive and deteminedness is aur inspiring..
    As a professional who often works with people with dementia your book has given me so many tips guidance and confidence to support people to live well with dementia.. THANK YOU!!! 🙂

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  2. I have just read your book. I am a retired GP and know/have known people with dementia.
    For me you book is very moving and very important and full of very important insights for those of us still ‘normal‘.
    Thank you very much and all the best for each coming day.

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  3. Hi Wendy, I was recommended your book by my psychiatric nurse. I was just diagnosed with Alzheimer’s yesterday and already – after just a few pages -I can see that we are definitely on the same page. I am looking forward to reading the rest of your book and will follow your news on your blog. I have always had memory problems and so for many years I have kept a diary as well as taken photos every day. One of my simple delights of my life.

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  4. I’m 81 years old have just read your book. So far I am lucky to have good health but the way you have dealt with living your life has made me believe that if I ever have to live with dementia I will try to follow your example .Thank you

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  5. Hi Wendy, my father has stage 5 alzeimers so just finished reading your book. You truly are a magnificent lady. Your determination to push through and battle this disease is overwhelming. People living with dementia are truly incredible and amazing people.
    Thank you so very much for writing your own experiences so others can have a better understanding to enable them to help others as well as themselves. Every best wish is sent to you and your daughters, Sarah and Gemma.

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  6. I saw your post pop up from my Facebook memories this morning. You are truly an inspirational lady. Thank you for sharing your story, you will have given so many people hope. X

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  7. Hi Wendy
    Your book was nominated in our Bookclub for this month (we’re all ‘seniors’😅). I have just finished it and am in total awe of your courage, determination and positivity. You’ve achieved so much and all the while living independently! Thank you for sharing what it’s like to live with dementia – especially the sudden episodes of confusion and panic that can drop in unannounced. Every family is touched by dementia. Your book educates us all and builds a bridge we can cross to understand how the other feels. It should be mandatory reading for every health professional. Congratulations Wendy for this invaluable legacy. Best wishes, Anne

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  8. Hi Wendy
    I work as a H.C.A in a hospital with patients who are living with Dementia your book has helped me understand what they are going through so I can care for them and their needs.

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  9. Hi Wendy I have just read your book, inspiring! My sister is in a nursing home at the moment and is being assessed by the memory clinic, she has short term memory and many things you have mentioned in your book, we are awaiting diagnosis, your book has helped me understand and is preparing me to better understand dementia Thankyou Christina .

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  10. Thank you for your wonderful book. My Dad is suffering with Lewy Body Dementia and was diagnosed in 2016. Your insights into what it feels like from inside has really helped me to understand and rethink some of my approaches to relating to him. Good luck in your own journey.

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