Minds and Voices meet Admiral Nurses…..

Yesterday I trundled on the bus to York for a different meeting for Minds and Voices, my peer support group in York with the most wonderful playmates.

It was a lovely fresh, sunny morning and many of the town cows on the Westwood hadn’t deemed it late enough to stand up yet and looked like they were just waking up – they looked like I felt, very tired……..I felt a tad out of sorts today, but knew seeing my playmates would bring back my sparkle……

The aim of this different meeting was to find out more about Admiral Nurses, who are in York and my area…..

Admiral Nurses hope to be Nationwide and are specialist nurses supporting families where a person is living with dementia.

I loved the way that Damian wrote on the invite how the day would start with the ‘obligatory cuppa tea’………..mmmmm, perhaps he knows I’d never go anywhere that didn’t start in this way………😂

Anyway, the taxi and the bus were on time and I arrived in York early enough for me to have an amble in my favourite city in the peace of the morning before heading to the venue.

There were lots of surprises when I arrived as Jean Tottie appeared, from TIDE, Toby, Suzy Webster, Diane and Maureen immediately appeared – I was only expecting George Rook! So a wonderful bonus.
They are all members of LEAP – Lived Experience Advisory Panel for Dementia UK.

They wanted to hear what we do and we wanted to hear what they do and how we can both work together to bring Admiral Nurses to our part of the country.

Suzy did an ice breaker with pretty cards. We had to choose a card from a table that appealed to us and then talk about why we picked it to people next to us.

I initially chose a bright sunflower but then Jean Tottie persuaded me to have this one…for some reason….🙄…..should have been an ipad…🤣

We all then went round and said who we were and whether we were from Minds and Voices or Dementia UK…..as there were 9 from them and 13 of us – marvellous 👍⭐

The picture cards were a very good ice breaker as the minute we’d chose our cards we were all relaxed and animated and chatty around our tables – wonderful

Suzy, went through the agreed ways of working in the meeting – no ground rules, as we like breaking rules too much.😂

There was a moment of panic when Elaine decided to pass out but all of Minds and Voices didn’t bat an eyelid, 😂, but the other people were reaching for their phones and 999 sprang to mind. Of course, we’re all use to it and knew Elaine just needed some fresh air…….🤣 bless….

It was then Rachel Thomson’s turn to talk to us about Admiral nurses and she started off with their wonderful film – Together Again


Eddie asked what the connection was with the Navy and Rachel told him the history of Admiral Nurses…..the Levy family set it up when nothing was there for them…..they have about 240 nurses around the country. Elaine was asking, why doesn’t anyone tell you about Admiral Nurses?

Everyone in Minds and Voices, especially the couples in the room were all the same in their thinking – how they would love to have an Admiral Nurse in their lives……

After lunch and a cuppa, we had 5 minutes from Toby saying what LEAP do and 5 minutes from Damian saying what Minds and Voices do.

LEAP have only been going for just over a year and it’s aim is to advise Dementia UK. There are 14 people with dementia and affected by dementia on the LEAP board. They want to hear our views as an established group of people with dementia – as a group LEAP have advised on Dementia UK website, on factsheets, on a survey, the media campaign of the film that we saw earlier.

Sadly I then had to go as my buses now don’t coincide properly for changes……which is a real bummer……as I missed the important bit of the roundtable discussion for how we can help.

It’s such a comforting service where you see the same person each time – and it’s such a shame there are none in York or my area……….Admiral nurses often help to avoid crises……not rocket science to see what a valuable resource they are..one of the aims today is to find ways how we can work together to bring more pressures on the powers that be to see the common sense in the provision of Admiral nurses. After all, we have MacMillan Nurses are the norm for people with cancer, but once again people with dementia miss out…….☹️

One of the special moments of the day was when Jean Tottie from TIDE gave me a pressie….

Really must put this in a frame…😍

Another of my special moment of the day was finally managing to capture poppies in the field. I saw a field the other day and was disappointed not to have my phone to hand to snap its beauty but today I managed it, albeit only a few in the field but still a glorious sight. I like nothing more than seeing a field of poppies, not as common now as they used to be so always sheer delight.

About wendy7713

On the 31st July 2014 I was diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s. I may not have much of a short term memory anymore but that date is one I’ll never forget. I’m 58 years young, live happily alone in Yorkshire, have 2 daughters and I’m currently still in full time employment in the NHS. However, I’m now in the process of taking early retirement to give me a chance of enjoying life while I’m still me. I've started this blog to allow me, in the first instance, to write all my thoughts before they’re lost. If anyone chooses to follow my ramblings it will serve as a way of raising awareness on the lack of research into Alzheimer's. It will hopefully convey the helplessness of those diagnosed with dementia, as there is no cure – the end is inevitable. However, I’m also hoping I can convey that, although we've been diagnosed, people like me still have a substantial contribution to make; we still have a sense of humour; we sill have feelings. I’m hoping to show the reality of trying to cope on a day to day basis with the ever-changing environment that dementia throws at those diagnosed with the condition. What I want is not sympathy. What I want is simply to raise awareness.

3 thoughts on “Minds and Voices meet Admiral Nurses…..

  1. Wendy, I share your delight in a field of red poppies – a true sign of summer. Thank you for the glorious photo.

    I may borrow the icebreaker idea of choosing a card & saying a few words about the choice. A lovely way to give everyone a voice at any gathering of “strangers”.

    I so look forward to hearing about your adventures.


  2. The page is not there Wendy.


    On Wed, Jun 20, 2018 at 11:56 AM, Which me am I today? wrote:

    > wendy7713 posted: “Yesterday I trundled on the bus to York for a different > meeting for Minds and Voices, my peer support group in York with the most > wonderful playmates. It was a lovely fresh, sunny morning and many of the > town cows on the Westwood hadn’t deemed it late ” >

    Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.