Travelling to Norwich……….šŸ™„

Yesterday saw me travelling south and then East across to Norwich. I donā€™t think Iā€™ve been to Norwich beforeā€¦.šŸ¤”

Ages ago, Bryony Porter, a second year PhD student at the University of East Anglia, in Norwich, contacted me . Bryony is being funded by the Alzheimerā€™s Society and is researching the challenges of multiple medication use in people with dementia.

It was a beautiful morning outside my window this morning. The leaves are starting to fall and unveil the view beyond the trees.

Iā€™d been looking forward to this trip. It was going to take me over 5 hours to get there but Bryony had sorted out a hotel for me and I was being rewarded the following day by delivering a talk to my favourite people ā€“ students. This time the audience for the seminar would be a mix of students, researchers, academics and interested members of the public apparently, so very exciting.

The beautiful morning soon turned sour as my travel plans immediately went arrayšŸ™„. I planned to catch the bus from the village into Beverley. A ten minute bus ride leaving me lots of time to amble to the stationā€¦ā€¦the 10am bus is never lateā€¦ā€¦.it always turns up on timeā€¦ā€¦.I could even use my bus pass so no costā€¦ā€¦needless to say on the one day I wanted it to arrive as usual, it didnā€™tā€¦.šŸ˜³ I gave up and went home at 10.15 as I knew the chances of me catching the train were diminishing fast. But no problem, Iā€™d ring my taxi people and get a taxi to Brough further up the lineā€¦ā€¦ā€¦
ā€œSorry Wendy Iā€™m a bit short of drivers today. I can get you one in an hourā€™šŸ˜±
I rang Gemma, now in a panicā€¦ā€¦.no reply to begin withā€¦šŸ˜¶ I tried again and her lovely face appeared on screenšŸ¤— and yes she could take me but at what time?ā€¦ā€¦
ā€œI donā€™t knowšŸ¤·ā€ā™€ļøā€ was my response as all my instructions were from BeverleyšŸ™„
ā€œIā€™ll just come now thenā€ ā¤ļøšŸ˜ā¤ļø
Instantly relieved and now the threat of heart failure getting less by the minute, I waited and within a few minutes Gemma was there and I arrived at Brough in plenty of time to catch the trainā€¦ā€¦ā€¦..šŸŽ‰I sat on the first train clicking away on my ipad taking happy photos and this morning the windmills looked particularly calmingā€¦ā€¦ā€¦

ā€¦..not a good start to the journeyšŸ˜ Bryony had txt me from Norwich first thing and Iā€™d told her everything was going finešŸ¤£

We trundled along to Doncaster and I started to look at the notes Iā€™d madeā€¦ā€¦.I saw that I had a 50 minute wait at Peterboroughā€¦..perfectā€¦..then notice a 7 minute wait between connections at DoncasteršŸ˜Øhow did that happen?! I must have tried to sort this one out myself and not noticed the short change overā€¦ā€¦..šŸ˜©ā€¦ā€¦we were late leaving Goole because they couldnā€™t find the ramp for the wheelchairšŸ˜³so I decided not to look at the time and just deal with whatever when we got to Doncasterā€¦.šŸ™ˆ

For once delays worked in my favour and my second train was delayed for a few minutes so a quick trip to the loo and my second train arrived ā€“ phew!
I had to keep saying to myself ā€˜Get off at Peterborough with suitcaseā€™ as Iā€™d never got off there before and usually trundled straight byā€¦ā€¦but verbal and electronic reminders did their trickā€¦

I hadĀ a 40 minute wait at Peterborough and settled down with a cuppaā€¦ā€¦..all is well in the world againšŸ˜Šā˜•ļø

Iā€™d never been on the Peterborough to Norwich line before so I was quite happy to just sit and look out of the window at all the new scenaryā€¦ā€¦the long flat landscape of the Fens stretching out for milesā€¦

I used to live in the next county of Suffolk and very good friends still live there. Maureen has to do this trek every time she comes to see mešŸ™„sorry!

We got to Ely and then seemed to go back the way we had just comeā€¦šŸ˜¶ I had the photos to prove it ā€“ the rowers were still rowing, the bridge over the river still got in the wayā€¦.. No conductor walking up and down to askā€¦..no announcement reassuring me I was still on the right trainā€¦ā€¦and then I had a brain wavešŸ˜‡ I could track me on the same app that my daughters track me onšŸ…
And there was my little train speeding along towards Thetford and I could see Norwich after it. We must simply have reversed and changed tracks but with no announcement or guard to ask it was very unsettling for a few minutesā€¦ā€¦.

One day my nice journeys will out number my scary onesā€¦ā€¦ā€¦sure Iā€™ve said that beforeā€¦.šŸ¤”

I got to Norwich and Bryony had told me to take a taxi and provided me with a map in case I wanted to wanderā€¦.the hotel people were lovely and also showed me how to get to Marks and Spencer for my evening sandwich and snacks. On the way I spotted the Castle so couldnā€™t resist taking a piccieā€¦.

And then a nice man told me how to get to the Cathedral allowing me to get my final photo before barricading myself in my hotel room for the evening…..

Tomorrow will be all about meeting the studentsā€¦.šŸ˜Š

 

About wendy7713

On the 31st July 2014 I was diagnosed with Young Onset Dementia. I may not have much of a short term memory anymore but that date is one Iā€™ll never forget. Iā€™m 58 years young, live happily alone in Yorkshire, have 2 daughters and Iā€™m currently still in full time employment in the NHS. However, Iā€™m now in the process of taking early retirement to give me a chance of enjoying life while Iā€™m still me. I've started this blog to allow me, in the first instance, to write all my thoughts before theyā€™re lost. If anyone chooses to follow my ramblings it will serve as a way of raising awareness on the lack of research into Alzheimer's. It will hopefully convey the helplessness of those diagnosed with dementia, as there is no cure ā€“ the end is inevitable. However, Iā€™m also hoping I can convey that, although we've been diagnosed, people like me still have a substantial contribution to make; we still have a sense of humour; we sill have feelings. Iā€™m hoping to show the reality of trying to cope on a day to day basis with the ever-changing environment that dementia throws at those diagnosed with the condition. What I want is not sympathy. What I want is simply to raise awareness.

6 thoughts on “Travelling to Norwich……….šŸ™„

  1. I am totally impressed that you thought to use your app to track yourself! A lot of people without Alzheimer’s might never have thought of that!! ….And I continue to admire your bravery in making all these trips on your own.

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